Before people can qualify for having children they should be exposed to taxi drivers in Pretoria's central city! I think the latter requires even more patience and selfsacrifise than having children.
This is coming from the country girl who got exposed to Pretoria's central city today. I think I almost died like three times this morning! I was sent into the unknown all by myself and just as I thought I got the hang of it, I had to stop so suddenly that I now have a stiff neck! That is because taxi's has their own rules about stopping where and when and why! And pedestrians have rights that beats our constitution's human rights charter! :) I guess it is not so bad and that I just need experience, but it may just be that I should go for an advanced driving course first! This is a BIG challenge for me.
That was after I discovered that our company vehicle has a HUGE petrol leak! That lead to some documents being late for registration at the Deed's Office. :( But I didn't get into trouble. The stress was enough, anyway!
I survived the rest of the day with another cup of coffee and lots of grace. God is ALWAYS helping - we just don't always see it...
I was exhausted when I got home and experienced the strangest craving for vegetables! I think this body of mine is feeling sorry for herself. Now she's getting back at me with this weird demands. So, eating balnced is just another thing I have to put on my list of things to get in order! In this department I am happy to announce that I now know Seelan from my potential medical scheme so well, he might just be my first new friend here!
My girly classmates from varsity is having a girls' night tonight... Ahw, I really miss them. Enjoy it, girls!
Beautiful Boklammetjie
Tuesday, 8 February 2011
Monday, 7 February 2011
Weekdays
I promised myself that I will not become one of those working people that wishes the week away to get to the weekend, but for this week only, I am one of those...
It started out when I slept bad on Sunday night and then got worse when I had to take my mother to the busstop this morning (woke up at 03h45). My hope for this day will be planted in coffee and suger supplements.
But let me get back to wishing the week away. If this is the way we opperate, then we will wish 5/7th of our lives away and only 2/7ths will be worth it. Hayikona! We have too much to live for...
Being happy at work.
Enjoying colleagues.
Purpose in each task.
Overcoming our challenges.
Laughing at begging students.
Noticing the one star that is bright enough to shine through the city lights(yes, indeed, there is one I know of!).
Enjoying a destressing run.
And so forth and so forth.
I am going to try this even today - to appreciate the time I am given to do the things I have to do. Just for today, and then I will take each day as it comes. Join me?
It started out when I slept bad on Sunday night and then got worse when I had to take my mother to the busstop this morning (woke up at 03h45). My hope for this day will be planted in coffee and suger supplements.
But let me get back to wishing the week away. If this is the way we opperate, then we will wish 5/7th of our lives away and only 2/7ths will be worth it. Hayikona! We have too much to live for...
Being happy at work.
Enjoying colleagues.
Purpose in each task.
Overcoming our challenges.
Laughing at begging students.
Noticing the one star that is bright enough to shine through the city lights(yes, indeed, there is one I know of!).
Enjoying a destressing run.
And so forth and so forth.
I am going to try this even today - to appreciate the time I am given to do the things I have to do. Just for today, and then I will take each day as it comes. Join me?
Sunday, 6 February 2011
Patience is a virtue
I get rebellious sometimes. I think it is because I like to make my own decisions and are not used to people trying to help me and giving me advice. Now, that sounds awfull!!! It is not like I never listen to what people have to say, but I am very selective. If I don't ask for advice, don't give me advice. But that is not how it works (or should work) when you have good family and friends. We were not put on this earth to be alone or survive on our own. No man is an island.
It just so happens that with the move to Pretoria I have to make a few decisions. 1. Which work to apply for and which job offer to take. 2. Where and with whom I will stay. 3. Buy a new car or a used car and find finance for whichever option I take.
IMAGINE all the advice I got from family and friends! So, what the hec - I decided that U (the reader) can also join in the fun. Give me your best advice. I state the facts and you get the say. Go!
1. I took a job as candidate attorney in Pretoria and unfortunately you don't have a say about this one. So far, so good. I learn a lot each day and I am getting used to things there.
2. My first option is to move in with a guy for R1 800 p.m. I met him this morning and went to see the flat. Nice flat. Small, but nothing less than my previous flat. Sharing with a guy - never did it. All essentials - double (triple if you count the guy) security, parking space, near work, near a shopping centre, tumble dryer, washing machine, TV (no DSTV), stove, own room, swimming pool.
Second option is to stay with my cousin. I don't know how this will work out, but still, I know her and love her. Price will only be talked about when she returns on the 18th of February. It is a bit further from work. Bigger room, no swimming pool, furnished, near a shopping centre.
3. I would LOVE to have a Toyota Yaris. A friend says he'll be able to get me an affordable deal for a new car. Other people say I should buy second hand. What say you?
Now that I "talked" about it, I feel a bit relieved. I am sure I can still wait and let my options multiply so I can make the best decisions. For the moment I am in the very fortunate position to be able to live with my aunt and drive my mom's Bantam bakkie.
O, and I went to a church this morning and loved it. I enjoyed the praise and worship so much, was enspired by the message and saw a few interesting projects where I could apply my skills. But, of course, I will think about this one as well.
Where are the days where, on our little town, we had no choices - everything was just simple and easy? Now life is just so complicated, but full of opportunities.
It just so happens that with the move to Pretoria I have to make a few decisions. 1. Which work to apply for and which job offer to take. 2. Where and with whom I will stay. 3. Buy a new car or a used car and find finance for whichever option I take.
IMAGINE all the advice I got from family and friends! So, what the hec - I decided that U (the reader) can also join in the fun. Give me your best advice. I state the facts and you get the say. Go!
1. I took a job as candidate attorney in Pretoria and unfortunately you don't have a say about this one. So far, so good. I learn a lot each day and I am getting used to things there.
2. My first option is to move in with a guy for R1 800 p.m. I met him this morning and went to see the flat. Nice flat. Small, but nothing less than my previous flat. Sharing with a guy - never did it. All essentials - double (triple if you count the guy) security, parking space, near work, near a shopping centre, tumble dryer, washing machine, TV (no DSTV), stove, own room, swimming pool.
Second option is to stay with my cousin. I don't know how this will work out, but still, I know her and love her. Price will only be talked about when she returns on the 18th of February. It is a bit further from work. Bigger room, no swimming pool, furnished, near a shopping centre.
3. I would LOVE to have a Toyota Yaris. A friend says he'll be able to get me an affordable deal for a new car. Other people say I should buy second hand. What say you?
Now that I "talked" about it, I feel a bit relieved. I am sure I can still wait and let my options multiply so I can make the best decisions. For the moment I am in the very fortunate position to be able to live with my aunt and drive my mom's Bantam bakkie.
O, and I went to a church this morning and loved it. I enjoyed the praise and worship so much, was enspired by the message and saw a few interesting projects where I could apply my skills. But, of course, I will think about this one as well.
Where are the days where, on our little town, we had no choices - everything was just simple and easy? Now life is just so complicated, but full of opportunities.
Thursday, 3 February 2011
Philosophy
Have you ever thought about PASSION? Being passionate. What is the origin of our passions? Why do we have it? How do we recognise it? What are the advantages and disadvantages of the state of passion? How does passion die?
I have a passion for people, their uniqueness, their behaviour, creating an environment in which they can be comfortable and themselves. This wasn't always true of me. I used to be quite hard on people and would not think twice about stepping on someone who did not have a strong personality. I am not proud of that little girl I used to be, but I'm not beating myself up about it either. The point is that my heart changed (yes, because I came to understand God and love better) and that I became the complete opposite of what I used to be.
Anyway, so for me, passion is something that God puts in your heart and which He uses to change the world. Passion is such a strong and important thing, a gift, not only to yourself, but also to others around you. I'd say that it also is a responsibility. Live it out, because it has the power to touch lives, nature, animals etcetera.
Maybe you can feel that. The nagging feeling in your heart that NEEDS to come out and materialise into something touchable or nameable or known about. Go on - let it free! You can be a tool with your passion. Combine it with your talents and gifts and you are unstoppable!
And never let anything stop you. Older people who 'also wanted to try that' (listen to their advise, but take only the constructive parts and use it), the limitations you make yourself believe you have (search for alternatives and consider the possibility that you may be wrong) and whatever else. I am too subjective to think of other passion-killers.
Be passionate! Be a person that changes lives! Be humble about whatever you accomplish throug it, because remember that your passion is a gift and also a responsibility. Use it wisely. :)
I have a passion for people, their uniqueness, their behaviour, creating an environment in which they can be comfortable and themselves. This wasn't always true of me. I used to be quite hard on people and would not think twice about stepping on someone who did not have a strong personality. I am not proud of that little girl I used to be, but I'm not beating myself up about it either. The point is that my heart changed (yes, because I came to understand God and love better) and that I became the complete opposite of what I used to be.
Anyway, so for me, passion is something that God puts in your heart and which He uses to change the world. Passion is such a strong and important thing, a gift, not only to yourself, but also to others around you. I'd say that it also is a responsibility. Live it out, because it has the power to touch lives, nature, animals etcetera.
Maybe you can feel that. The nagging feeling in your heart that NEEDS to come out and materialise into something touchable or nameable or known about. Go on - let it free! You can be a tool with your passion. Combine it with your talents and gifts and you are unstoppable!
And never let anything stop you. Older people who 'also wanted to try that' (listen to their advise, but take only the constructive parts and use it), the limitations you make yourself believe you have (search for alternatives and consider the possibility that you may be wrong) and whatever else. I am too subjective to think of other passion-killers.
Be passionate! Be a person that changes lives! Be humble about whatever you accomplish throug it, because remember that your passion is a gift and also a responsibility. Use it wisely. :)
Wednesday, 2 February 2011
Special bonus edition blog for Phillip
Since I haven't figured out how to reply to a comment I made this brilliant plan - to create a new post! :) I dedicate this blog and a moment of silence to the dead Corsa bakkie you refer to, Phillip. The Corsa's joyful life as a driving-to-town-bakkie ended when my brother tried to jump-start his Isuzu bakkie with it and seized the engin! A second hand Bantam bakkie was appointed in its place and that is my transportation. As for the reason for the tail lights...bad, unscraped farm roads. Need I say more? That, and a slow repair-system. But I can't complain, because I have aircon and a CD player and an adjustable driving seat, so I can happily enjoy my ride from home to work and back.
And the busy traffic. Try add a thunder storm to it and you find me with emergency lights, trying to find a way to make the fog(I think...wasem) go away! Got a hoot for that party trick! Other than that, I'd say my good-tempered driving don't impress these Gautengers! Hopefully they will get used to me!
Thank you for reading my blog and making commtents!
And the busy traffic. Try add a thunder storm to it and you find me with emergency lights, trying to find a way to make the fog(I think...wasem) go away! Got a hoot for that party trick! Other than that, I'd say my good-tempered driving don't impress these Gautengers! Hopefully they will get used to me!
Thank you for reading my blog and making commtents!
Being early
The early bird... Well, what if there is no early worm to catch? It is so funny! Figuring out how late to leave for work is no easy task and is still unaccomplished. I can tell you one thing, though. "Blikskut" (begging money for charity using tin cans) is very much legal here in contrast to the situasion in Stellenbosch. I am the adult, working person now, who just smile and wave at the silly-dressed students. In my defence, I only get paid my little clerk's salary on the 28th.
Today I realised the true geniusness of the invention of repositionable notes and paper clips. Now my life and files are back in order and I am feeling a bit more in control. I just hope that my supplies last!
It seems that a residential address is essential for almost ANYTHING you want to get done and guess what, I don't have one. YET. Hopefully I will fill in all the blank spots in contracts, SARS-registration and learning agreement.
The day ended with a thunder storm (well, in my Cape Townian opinion) and consequent power failure. Luckily (as every true and dedicated employee would say) our computers could still run on the generator. The darness was overcome by our positivity and will to accomplish.
Yes, today was an improvement on yesterday. Bring it on! (Please keep praying for the clerk and all the adjustments.)
Today I realised the true geniusness of the invention of repositionable notes and paper clips. Now my life and files are back in order and I am feeling a bit more in control. I just hope that my supplies last!
It seems that a residential address is essential for almost ANYTHING you want to get done and guess what, I don't have one. YET. Hopefully I will fill in all the blank spots in contracts, SARS-registration and learning agreement.
The day ended with a thunder storm (well, in my Cape Townian opinion) and consequent power failure. Luckily (as every true and dedicated employee would say) our computers could still run on the generator. The darness was overcome by our positivity and will to accomplish.
Yes, today was an improvement on yesterday. Bring it on! (Please keep praying for the clerk and all the adjustments.)
Tuesday, 1 February 2011
The file lady - day one of work
So no one told you life was gonna be this way? Of course thy did! Today was the first day of my new life as a file lady. So many files! And do not dare think you are done with one, because you are NOT! Or, I'm just inexperienced. I vote for the latter! I felt like the complete clueless "new girl" which, of course, I am. I definately got the chance to test my new bosses' patience and teaching skills, since I was asking questions all day long. This is going to take some getting used to, definately.
O, and I took some wrong turns when I drove to work this morning, but in the process got to know the area better and still got to the office on time. Tomorrow will be a straight drive, I think.
I have to tell you about this one girl in my office (I'm sharing cubical space as well as personal aura with her). She has such an open and wonderful personality. Made me feel so welcome and asked about my life. We even share a friend (good one to her, I just know him). I am always very intrigued by people who is just friendly and warm. As if just about nothing can ever darken their mood. Well, so there is a nice little sunstream in my day!
Not that it was a dark day - just overwhelming with info and trying to remember it the first time. Silly me! I'm human after all! According to my very qualified, expert opinion, a clerk spend 87% of their time on files! I wish I listened to my Civil Procedure lecturer when he said that that is the most important subject in the LLB course. Turns out he was SO right. My end marks is not worth mentioning on this public space. Let's just say it wasn't one of my talents. Now I'll have to invest some time in those books.
Anyway, I'm also fighting very hard to find balance in the form of running. I went for a 20 minute run just after work and it was great! Exercise really do take away stress! Oh, it was GOOD.
Over and out, people. I am tired and still have to read my working contract... My job is, in fact, NOT a joke, but a serius matter. :)
O, and I took some wrong turns when I drove to work this morning, but in the process got to know the area better and still got to the office on time. Tomorrow will be a straight drive, I think.
I have to tell you about this one girl in my office (I'm sharing cubical space as well as personal aura with her). She has such an open and wonderful personality. Made me feel so welcome and asked about my life. We even share a friend (good one to her, I just know him). I am always very intrigued by people who is just friendly and warm. As if just about nothing can ever darken their mood. Well, so there is a nice little sunstream in my day!
Not that it was a dark day - just overwhelming with info and trying to remember it the first time. Silly me! I'm human after all! According to my very qualified, expert opinion, a clerk spend 87% of their time on files! I wish I listened to my Civil Procedure lecturer when he said that that is the most important subject in the LLB course. Turns out he was SO right. My end marks is not worth mentioning on this public space. Let's just say it wasn't one of my talents. Now I'll have to invest some time in those books.
Anyway, I'm also fighting very hard to find balance in the form of running. I went for a 20 minute run just after work and it was great! Exercise really do take away stress! Oh, it was GOOD.
Over and out, people. I am tired and still have to read my working contract... My job is, in fact, NOT a joke, but a serius matter. :)
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